I have been CO washing for several years. I use cone-free conditioners; I try to not use parabens and sulfates also. I have a lot of gray in my hair now and it's not very shiny. I am thinking of going back to conditioners with cones (still doing CO washing, but possibly clarifying -- I don't clarify much at all now).

I would love any suggestions for good CO conditioners that can help gray hair shine. I already alternate in a purple conditioner (Aveda Blue Malva, Silver Fox, etc.)
Location: Texas
Type: 3b/3c (i), below shoulder length.
CO wash: A-O GPB LYY, Desert Essence Coconut, Oribe Silverati
Leave-ins: Curl Junkie Beauti-Curls, KCKT, cno overnight
Styling: BRHG, MGA Sculpting Gel, A-O Mandarin Magic Gel, LOTD AVG, LALSG, CJ Pattern Pusha
DT: Curl Junkie Deep Fix, Briogeo Don't Despair Repair!