Thanks, RCW. I would be concerned about cassia yellowing my gray (I actually have a lot of white) hair. I may try this, since it's a natural product, for that 1-2 hours. Is cassia hard to work with once it's mixed with water? Does it smell? Is it hard to rinse out? I will definitely check out that site!

Still would like some regular conditioner recs, too (online or d/s), if anyone has had good results with them on gray hair.
Location: Texas
Type: 3b/3c (i), below shoulder length.
CO wash: A-O GPB LYY, Desert Essence Coconut, Oribe Silverati
Leave-ins: Curl Junkie Beauti-Curls, KCKT, cno overnight
Styling: BRHG, MGA Sculpting Gel, A-O Mandarin Magic Gel, LOTD AVG, LALSG, CJ Pattern Pusha
DT: Curl Junkie Deep Fix, Briogeo Don't Despair Repair!