2poodles thanks, but I am trying to decide if I should contact her about her October birthday lunch. She will definitely go if I do, but what I am asking is should I ask her about the skipped years first?

I must have been unclear.
Originally Posted by sdc
figure out what your goal is. my experience is that people do not do what they do not want to do. if she did not want to see you, she would not go out to lunch with you. as far as the skipped birthday, you could lightly ask her about it when you see her without putting a lot of baggage on it, or just let it go and see what the relationship is like now. i like the suggestion of a seasonal date rather than a bday date.
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