I currently work as a cashier and sometimes after customers compliment my hair they ask if they can touch it. No idea why, but as long as they ask, it's totally okay with me. (Assuming they aren't raking their hands through it!) I take it as a compliment, my hair apparently looks healthy and shiny enough so that someone would WANT to touch it. I doubt that people would want to touch a frizzball mess.
Thick, dyed dark brown, 2c/3a in long layers to mid back

Suave Sleek

Organics Hair Mayonnaise or Suave Sleek

Leave in:
Herbal Esscenses None of Your Frizzness leave in creme
Luster's Pink Original hair lotion
Smooth 'N Shine Hair polisher