I second the KCCC recommendation, but with the disclaimer that it took me awhile to figure out how to use it best with my hair type. The amount you use and the way you apply it and whether or not you need another product with it - I usually add a little of a harder-hold gel - is going to depend on your hair, the climate, whatever other products you use, and your styling preferences. I definitely recommend trying it, and I also recommend not giving up on it right away, but instead working with it for awhile to see what works best for you.

fia 2C/3A-F-iii, sensitive to some proteins
CGish since 10-16-08
Low-poo: Yes to Carrots Daily Pampering Shampoo (1-2x/week)
Rinse outs: Yes to Carrots Pampering Mud Conditioner
Styling: a little bit of leave in and a little bit of KCCC, diffusing
Olive oil DTs, honey rinses in the summer