Yeah, I'm going to run-off to Idaho (where I know nobody...) and start a family with this guy who is 20 years older than me and who is listed as still legally married...

I do however have to ask you. What keeps you in NY?
How about living in Idaho, where the quality of life is so incredible. How about starting a family? I would love to have you in my life. I would love to pamper and spoil you every day of your life. Very cute guy looking for his lifelong sweety.
I have a great house, and great family