I think that both pictures look great.
What I found most frustrating last year when my hair was all natural and about that length was there wasn't much variation I could have when I was wearing my hair out. It was either out with a band, or out without and I think it was the shape that didn't allow much variation. I was frustrated and relaxed again.
But, don't you do it. Just stick with it.
I also like your hair in your avatar - with some of it picked to the front.
Last Relaxer: May 8, 2008
BC: May 27, 2009
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