Well, I was using Herbal Esscence for Curly Hair on her hair, and we dont normally wash it every day...maybe 2 to 3 times a week. It is very dry and very frizzy, I have to use a detangler spray on it in the mornings just to even come close to getting a comb through it and even after all that spray, it still takes around 30 minutes just to get all of the knots and rats out of it. Once it is dry again, it frizzes out again really bad, it looks as if she rubbed a balloon on it and caused some serious static in her hair once it is dry. It turns into a major fluff ball. Im just lost with all of this. I have straight hair, my oldest has straight hair..heck my entire family has straight hair. She is the only one, for as far back as I can remember that has curly hair. Im not sure if that was enough info for you to be able to help, but its all I can think of at the moment.