okayy, i have had naturally curly hair all my life. im mixed and my hair is super thick and grows fast. then i decided to bleach some of my hair with this high lighting kit last year. my hair was fine and remained curly. by the time most of the dyed hair grew out i got bored and high lighted it again... and my hair is completely different. all of my hair except about 4 inches from the roots looks like its relaxed or something! after getting out of the shower it just goes straight.. now my hair looks so retarded because its like half and half.. curly and wavy. what should i do? so far all i know i could do is basically cut all my dyed hair off. suggestions?