Whenever I do a protein treatment, or just use a protein rich conditioner, my hair feels really rough and tangly as soon as I rinse it out. However, once it dries my hair is awesome! Soft, shiny, and just really, really happy. The exact opposite happens with oil rich conditioners, plenty of slip but my hair dries to a poofy, dry mess. Is this normal or am I the only one where the condition of my wet hair does not reflect the condition of my dry hair at all?
high porosity (from coloring)

Shampoo: Mop Top Gentle Shampoo
Co-wash: Chistophe Robin Lemon Cleansing Cream
RO: CJ strengthening, Kenra moisturizing
LI: Jessicurl Aloeba
DT: CJ rehab, Christophe Robin Prickly Pear Mask
PT: SS protein treatment, Ouidad 12 minute
Stylers: Jessicurl RR, SS Firm Hold Gel
Oils: caudalie, sweet almond