Say It. I Dare You.

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anyway the partial reason I posted that is one, I'm tired of belonging to weeny hut junior, for being scared of someone who probably has moved on with their life

AND then I feel guilty for being an a55 to this person, like maybe I shouldn't have been so mean to him and then maybe I wouldn't be so scared. Because i did tell him to f**K off pretty much because he wouldn't stop calling and hanging up and harassing me. Kind of like how a teenage girl typically does to a guy in movies.

And I feel like I wonder if I have bad karma for leading him on, because I never liked him and I would talk to him like you would talk to a casual schoolmate or friend I had no interest in him. And then I think no one is ever gonna like me because of this bad karma. I don't know.

One time he told me that he found black people the most attractive, I'm not sure if that was supposed to be a pick up line, but it was the worst one on the planet, even in my high school brain that's like the ultimate, ummmm boy bye pick up line I've ever heard. Even if he looked like James Franco and said that, I'd have to diss him immediately for a line like that.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
You don't have to feel guilty. This is straight up male privilege and entitlement at work, with society making women feel bad for not being interested and blaming ourselves because some dude refused to pick up clear signals. Just think that if you were a dude,you'd never question whether you were too mean and you'd just be annoyed/angry.
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it is wrong that I kinda want some wedge sneakers?
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What does the Baby Calvin say about such things?
Listen to Saria, murrrcat. She speaks the truth. I had one dude like that that I'd never even MET when he was posting all over any Facebook photos I was in. I only accepted his friend request because I saw he was friends with an actual friend of mine...who it turns out was only his FB friend through a school activity and was disturbed that he was going and finding these photos that had nothing to do with them and commenting like crazy. I unfriended him because of the weirdness, as did she. She told me he blew up about being defriended by her and a few others on the team, even he had graduated from high school when they were freshmen, like they were being disloyal. Then I wound up in the same college as him, and in my sophomore year he lived in my building. I felt guilty about being uncomfortable participating in a house activity because I didn't want to interact with him IRL, until I heard from the roommate who went that he'd been talking her ear off about how much it sucked that I'd defriended him. He was seeking out the roommate of a chick he had never met who had defriended him on Facebook two years before to complain. Yeah, I figured I was not the weird one after that.

...It's a siggie.

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Mine didn't even last one winter. I miss my houndstooth boots! I actually made a friend over them.

I've never had Target boots last that long for me - they end up splitting in the seams. I'm going to end up having to spend more for rubber boots which stay together... Grrr, the Target ones are the cutest!
Originally Posted by NetG
Boo, that stinks! They're so adorable it makes it extra mean of them to fall apart like that. I've only actually worn them maybe three times since I bought them, more likely two, and both of those times it didn't actually rain (whereas during at least the week before I bought them, my sneakers were soaked EVERY day), so mine haven't lasted through any wear. So not looking forward to them potentially falling apart on me when I finally do get to use them.

...It's a siggie.
does anyone else get random calls from people??

Like a couple of months ago, I got a phone call from a stranger asking for someone I can't remember the name let's just say A. And I said no you have the wrong number etc. After that they would call like 3x a day. Eventually my friend answered and said "no you have the wrong number so why do you keep calling because this is not A's number"

they stopped after that

Then once I received a text asking if my phone number was a real number. I didn't answer because again these are numbers from my area code where I'm from and I got scared and assumed it was the creepy person who had a crush on me not moving on with his life. See?? I can't escape him mentally, he has me trapped with his creepiness.

Today my mom keeps getting calls from someone asking for sylvia, they sound wasted, and kept insisting this is the number for sylvia. Like argued with her, that Sylvia was there.


Please tell me this happens to other people.
Originally Posted by murrrcat

Back in university, I kept getting phone calls for some woman who's last name was Swan. Drunk people would call, and argue with me that I was definitely her and was just avoiding them. The debt collectors were probably the worst there - lady needs to pay her bills!!! And I am not her and could not convince them that I was not.

I even called one of the collectors and explained to them, rather clearly, what my name was, and how long I had the **** number and to please stop calling me.

I had to change numbers, end of story.

who can afford 4 dollar coffee when you earn 5-10$ a day? less than 1% of the population and foreigners can buy it. after i began drinking Viet coffee during my yearly trips ive since dropped US coffee like a bad habit

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Thank you for the hugs you guys

Needless to say I am once again shattered this morning.
My mom is on the phone talkog to someone about my nonexistent love life. HOW RUDE
Well, it seems I was not meant for this world because I have been slain!

What happens when two churches are across the street from one another.
And yes, it's probably completely fake, but no1currr.

Last edited by Saria; 01-05-2013 at 09:28 AM.
99% chance it's fake. I cracked up anyway, though.
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are you so vain?

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if you know someone who can do it better LMK
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oooh, spooky coincidence time...

i was going through Carly Simon lyrics in my read trying to think of a good comeback for this one and i'm singing Let the River Run in my head while channel hopping and coming across Working Girl with that song playing over the opening credits...


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so when I get back to school, I must go in my room and destroy my mirror.

I have to. It's terrible. I've been wearing nothing but sweats because I thought I looked TERRIBLE. My mirror is warped. hHAHAHAHAH.

I went in my parents room and I look like a normal human being in their mirror....or maybe they have a warped mirror!
I ain't thirsty. There's plenty of fish in the sea, but I don't want all of them, can I have some standards? Or do we just have to settle, for someone's who meh and will do.
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When I hear terms like "hipster" I think, who told cliques they could leave high school??

What is up with my left eye today.?. Twitchy McTwitch.
Originally Posted by Fifi.G
yet more evidence that we *are* the same person... mine has been doing the same all week!

i've heard it's a sign of dehydration.
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