the man is afraid of vagina's now...*adult*

My husband went through the same thing when my first child was born. He would try to explain why but it never made sense. I finallllllly figured out what was the problem and when I talked to him he stopped being, excuse me, a freak. Anyhow his deal was he was so completely tramatized by actually seing what went on down me...that he couldn't get past it in his mind. He was scared to death to be intimate with me because of what he saw, how um open it gets.....
I see nothing shady about his feelings either. I can completely understadn how he could be freaked out by the fact that the same parts of his wife that he enjoys sexually, are the same body parts his baby girl has. He prob thinks it is "yucky" of him to want to enjoy your parts knowing that his daughter has the same ones. I totally get that. Poor guy.

Oh and I agree about the nipple thing & I only breastfed for a month. But yeah, it took awhile to seperate nipples=babyfood adn nipples=fun in my head. I didn't want my husband to touch them at all. That was sicko to me! I think I have pretty much overcome that now though!
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when my colleague and his wife brought their newborn to work to show her off, his wife was talking about how really upset he gets when people jokingly ask him how old their daughter will be when he'll allow her to date. he said he doesn't even want to think about some gangly boy wanting to take out his baby girl to grope all over her.

he was turning red and dry-mouthed while saying it. i was laughing at him and told him that he'll eventually come to grips with all of that (knowing full well that my own husband hasn't) and went on to tell him that his baby girl has a uterus. his wife busted out laughing. my colleague was not amused and said, "no she doesn't!" and his wife said, well she's a girl; i hope she does!"

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