I have 3a fine hair and live in the high desert. My curls need coaxing (diffuser) and hold to stay pretty all day in this climate. I discovered Mousse Wax a couple years ago and it's been my go-to product ever since. But now it's been discontinued and I don't know what to try for soft, natural (not crunchy) curls that last. I wash may hair every 3rd day and all I have to do is lightly wet it and re-diffuse it to get beautiful curls for another day. Before I found this product my first-day hair was UGLY! Any ideas?