When I style my long 3B curls they become hard and lifeless. Are there any suggestions?

I always co-wash my hair with the Organix conditioner and hardly ever shampoo my hair. I've tried many styling products such as Kinkly Curly-hair gel, coconut oil ( It makes my skin break out), Mixed Chicks - leave in conditioner, Curls- leave in conditioner , Tgin- leave in conditioner. However my hair will either be weighed down by it ,harden by the product or no visible results. Is there any products that anyone can suggest or a routine I should be following for my curls to remain soft with volume. Also does anyone else wake up with super messy hair in the morning or is that just me ? 

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