(3b) cutting my hair to my shoulders ??? Good or bad???????
It's great! Go for it, if you're looking for a change. You can consult with a stylist if you like, but heck! have some fun. It'll always grow back if you don't like.
I think that's a perfect length. But be careful what stylist you go with. Try to stick with someone who knows curls. Because a normal stylist will wet your hair, comb it, and cut it at the shoulders....but when it curls it will shrink and be shorter than your intended length. If you can't find a curl stylist, then tell your stylist to cut longer than what you actually want.