Well I have 3c hair and KMS hair stay styling gel works best for me..... :)
Hey I was just wondering what gel would define my hair the best and I don't mind crunchy curls
Try using junky curly hair gel, not only will it so away with frizz and define your curls, there's no white residue build up either. Plus it only costs about 8 bucks.
You'll have to experiment with several to find the one you like the best. A lot of curlies like this one: http://Shop.NaturallyCurly.com/product/curl-junkie-curls-in-a-bottle/