Hey I was just wondering what gel would define my hair the best and I don't mind crunchy curls
Well I have 3c hair and KMS hair stay styling gel works best for me..... :)
Try using junky curly hair gel, not only will it so away with frizz and define your curls, there's no white residue build up either. Plus it only costs about 8 bucks.
You'll have to experiment with several to find the one you like the best. A lot of curlies like this one: http://Shop.NaturallyCurly.com/product/curl-junkie-curls-in-a-bottle/