I would like to find a product that keeps my curls intact but not crunchy and wet looking all day!
I know, right? I think you'll have to just experiment with different ones to see what works best for you. You might like Curl Keeper. Not crunchy or wet-looking.
shea moisture coconut and hibiscus curling gel souffle
I personally like to use Tresemme Flawless Curl: Bouncy Curl Defining Gel for that type of style.
eco styler gel