I've never worn my hair curly so I currently have no clue how to upkeep my hair. Any suggestions?

I believe I have 4c hair. It's extremely thick especially in the back where its shorter. My hair and scalp are also often very dry and I have no idea how to twist or braid hair to try out a curly look. I'm so frustrated I might just give up. 

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the best advice I can give u is to by the book "Curly Girl Handbook," by Lorraine Massey. It's only $14 and will answer every curly girl problem! It covers every type of curls. Worth every penny!
The most important things to remember are to keep it moisturized and to keep it simple. Don't start buying every product you see and don't try to pre-poo, clarify, cleanse, hot oil treat, henna, deep condition, and style every time you wash.Try conditioner washing to retain moisture. Cleanse with conditioner or a real co-wash product twice a week or more if you are very active. Once a week might be enough, just find what works for you. If you like shampooing better still, try moisturizing shampoos. My favorites are SheaMoisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil Shampoo (http://www.naturallycurly.com/curlproducts/view/10...) or Creme of Nature Argan Oil (http://www.naturallycurly.com/curlproducts/view/10...) or another Shea Moisture shampoo (http://Shop.NaturallyCurly.com/search/?query=shea+moistur...). Whatever you wash with, make sure its sulfate-free. Only shampoo once a week if you can (if you are only shampooing and not co-washing. If you also co-wash, trade your co-wash for shampoo at least once every two weeks).After cleansing use a rinse out conditioner or deep condition (as often as you feel your hair needs it–at least once a month or every time you swap your co-wash for shampoo). You can use regular conditioner and add olive oil (or another oil) to it to make your own deep conditioner. (http://www.naturallycurly.com/curlreading/kinky-ha...)Use a water-based leave-in/moisturizer (water is the first ingredient) on damp hair. A lot of people (including me) like SheaMoisture products so that might be a good place to start. I specifically like the Extra Moisture Transitioning Milk as a moisturizer. Then, seal the moisture in with an oil or butter, like pure shea butter (just a bit), jojoba, grapeseed, avocado, argan oil...To refresh your hair in the mornings put some warm tap water or mix the water with conditioner or oil (trial and error to see what your hair needs or likes better) in a spray bottle and dampen your hair to make it easier to fluff it back up after sleeping on it. Sleep on a satin pillowcase or with your hair covered with a satin cap.I know it can be confusing and a lot to figure out, to see what works for your hair, but keep trying, do your research online, on youTube for product reviews, regimens and tips. Again, just keep your regimen as simple as possible and learn how to keep your hair moisturized, and which products are working and which ones aren't.For easy hairstyle for your hairtype and length YouTube tutorials are a really good resource. You can even get basic tutorials on how to twist or braid your 4c hair. There is so much info on there! (Example youtube search: "easy hairstyles for short 4c hair" replace short with medium if your hair is medium length or long if your hair is long.)I hope that helps!