CURL DEFINING METHODS/PRODUCTS FOR 4A HAIR

I have type 4A hair but it QUICKLY turns into 4C after I de-tangle. Ever since Ive been natural (19 years) i haven't found any products or methods that work for defining my curls (that i like) after i de-tangle, other than water. Conditioner weights down my hair and I'm not a fan of the twist/braid out. HELP !!! I need a products that will define my curls, wont weight it down and still moisturize.

2 Answers

DevaCurl makes a WONDERFUL styling cream. Doesn't take much and does not smell like coconut. Love, love, love!!!
Cantu curl activating cream is really good