Just did the BC, my hair is hi-po and 4C. Is my hair always going to be "nappy?"
Try the Maximum Hydration Method, it helps 4c hair to clump and coil. Google or YouTube many have tried with amazing result.
the best solution for your hair type is to moisturise almost everyday to soften and give you a really fresh look . Try inexpensive products that you can afford and start experimenting . Take risks because what work for one might not work for you ! Good luck .
Since your hair is high porosity it is not best for you to mosturize too much, your hair already absorbs liquids easily. What you can try is sealing your hair with non penitrating oils and heavy butters to serve as a barrier so that more moisture can not enter. This also helps keep frizziness at bay.