Anything i add to my hair after i shower weighs it down

After showering I want to put in a leave in conditioner which will make my curls more defined but to do that i have to run it through my hair and this breaks up my curls and make them smaller but i like my bigger curls and also my little curls don't dry very well and my hair looks wet. I don't put in too much product because its only a pea size amount. My hair also falls flat with the smaller curls because i have long hair the bigger curls work, and look better. However my bigger curls have a tendency to frizz and can come undone very easily in weather situations. please comment, thanks 

1 Answer

Try mixing that leave in with water and spray it to your hair instead of running it through. If that doesnt work change the leave in