How can I define my curls?

my hair is so frizzy after I get out of the shower but when I apply product (ALOT) it looks so much better. Can someone help me and my curls?

2 Answers

Finger detangling. Using even a wide tooth comb on my hair makes me lose all curl definition. Once you continue to finger detangle it becomes easier and you have increased curl definition. It doesn't take forever as time goes on as well. I'm 4a/b, super coily
I have a combination of 3a and 3b hair. Finger detangling is definitely something you should try if you don't already! Also letting your hair sit in whatever kind of conditioner you use for at least 5 minutes before doing so. When you get out use a tee shirt or microfiber towel to squeeze out some of the water but don't twist like people normally do with a regular towel. And adding a leave in conditioner or moisturizer after you get out of the shower is consistently a life saver to dry and define-less hair! (mirror picture- before i started using method. beatles shirt picture- afterwards)