how do I encourage my natural wave without trying (and failing) with clumping?
I have 2b/c hair, been on the CG method for months with very few awesome hair days. I've added KCKT leave in for my moisture problems (love that stuff!!) and stopped using gel bc my hair would be faux curly for a couple of miracle hours and then fall to stingy crap-waves. I want to love and encourage my natural wave but it seems like everyone is in love with clumping. I don't think I'm in it for the clump, I just want soft lovely waves. Yes, I know it's a dream but I'm determined to figured out my hair. Please help a nonclumper unclump into goddess waves! Not so much to ask I don't think.