I Don't have Defined Curls?!?

Hi, Right now I am feeling so sad and frustrated because I don't have natural curl definition. When I wash my hair, condition and try to clump my curls it turns into a big frizzy mess, with loose waves and some curls it's like I have every hair type in my head.YouTube has lead me to believe I could do a wash and go. I tried last night. I followed all the steps and still it was a hot mess I just cried.I don't know what to do with my hair. It's just frustrating. How can some people not have natural curl definition?

2 Answers

What is your hair type? Did you have natural curl definition before? and if so what changed to hat brought you to the point you are? What are the current properties of your hair?I lost my curl definition due to dye damage, hard water, and sulfates shampoo. The only way to get it back is to nutre the hair back to health.I can't give you a better advise since there is not much info on your hair and hair routine. 
Wash and go's arent for everyone especially those with damaged hair or multiple hair types in their head because it doesnt look uniform. Try doing bantu knots and twist outs